Some Character Traits That Places A Lady In The Class Of A Love Peddler

                                  

he economy of youths is full of folks who like deceptive and fake lives, thus, dragging a majority of others alongside- little girls are picking from these destructive life patterns. I think, we must call a spade a spade and not an implement of Agriculture.

I love ladies who truly(not in words), knows what being "classy" means. "Classy" has now been turned to "Trashy". Guys are often the victims of such anomaly. This is not good. 

I've met and seen, not-a-few. Originally, Ladies were different from Peddlers. But today, the difference ain't much anymore. In fact, they're sometimes used interchangeably; you know, like synonyms, dark and black. Especially in college, some ladies "beef" their other girl friends are not into "RUNS" when they seek their help IN BID to luring them into their trade. True Ladies (few in number) are not afraid to stand out and NOT join this raid of "modernized" kind of peddling.

Let's see some Character Traits That Places A Lady In The Class Of A Peddler

1. Demanding money before or after intimacy 

Some call it, "Friendship with benefits". You see, that's an irony. A friend isn't really there for the benefits. So it's just a nickname for peddling. That's pros.ti.tu.tion in a modern economy. The euphemism fits perfectly. If you're a guy who keeps giving her that, just know, you're not the only one. You have other brothers-in-crime.

2. Breaking up with boyfriend just because he's temporarily broke and later returning when he's rich.

I recently ran into a thread on a girl who left her guy because he was broke. Yes. Now, she wants back. Such breaking news, I'm tired of hearing. If she wants to leave you now you're hustling, let her leave. Do your 'best' and when she insists on going, snub her and get to work. Recently heard of how some girls, in a certain bar, left their guys and almost going Unclad in front of these "Yahoo guys" as they were busy drinking. The hard truth is, if she leaves you when you can't afford a car or her jewelries. She never loved you. She ain't loyal- for the highest bidder kinda thing. Her deflated love is for sale. Snoopy, Tuface etc, all had faithful girls. If she returns again with pleas, you've just found an opportunist/gold digger. 

3. Sleeping with his friends to get at him or for lustful pleasure 

I was walking by one time and the things this guys were saying about ladies and what they've done with some even the seemingly "good" ones, with proofs, were disgusting. I doubted them in my mind. But who can doubt proofs? How can she be sleeping with his friends. Only dogs do that, seriously. 

4. Dating married men (for money) 

Another woman's husband. I know some women whose husbands sleep out and some how, they know that Karma is paying them back in pound sterlings. They pray, but with doubt. Change while you can!

5. Exposing body parts to entice another lady's man 

While I'm not against "fashion" and I'm not against dressing to expose cleavage, I would also ask, "what was in her mind when she opened those sensitive spots knowing she is going to visit another girl's/woman's guy? Even interview sef, they're representing. The manager hires them, not because they're qualified but for sexual/ libido satisfaction. Using what you have to get what you want? In this scenario, that's the FIRST LAW OF A PEDDLER.

6. Going diabolical to snatch a guy 

How pathetic! Yet, she is doing it out of love? Highest form of deception. Whatever you wash and put in his food; one day, his eyes will become clear. You'll be isolated, in the middle of nowhere. 

7. Purposefully starving him of sex because he didn't meet your financial demands. 

Especially for married folks; this is disheartening. When a woman comes screaming; My husband cheated on me. Ask her: What did you not give him? You've done it as a single so much so that you're now doing it in marriage. Well, someone else wants what you don't want, so he goes there.

8. Sex-chatting with guys for money or airtime. 

This last point is the most common in Nigeria. A girl chats with you for two-three days and the next thing is, "can you send me airtime?" So appalling if not shameful. In her mind, she has a "maga". I believe honestly, only kids do this. 

My Last Word

Being a lady isn't about doing things to be generally accepted by other ladies. It's leading the way. Ladies are like eagles; in terms of their strongest beliefs and principles, they are willing to fly alone with no regrets. 

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